Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Unavaliable

The question is would you actively peruse someone if you knew they were Unavaliable? 
Yes I know many of you would not even entertain the idea... not only NO but HELL NO! I  have discovered that in this sad world we live in many don't feel this way!  I wonder how much the divorce rate would drop if people would sever all ties upon discovering the other person is unavailable... 
I am sure there are many who don't share the same views as I do on the topic. For you who think this is okay and try and justify it by saying we were just friends and it turned into more! I call bullshit, STOP kidding yourself, you knew that moment you deleted a message or email or lied about who you were talking to or where you were going, yep you knew it was wrong but continued anyway. That was the moment you made a choice to deceive someone else for someone new. 
Sadly there are those who do this for entertainment, like its a sport or a game! I consider screwing with  someone else's  relationship for your own enjoyment and satisfaction not only sick but morally WRONG!!! 
Sadly I know this because I have encountered these kind of people maybe I am nust but nice girls dont cheat or tease unless they want trouble. some of them just do it for attention and never really want the relationship to go anywhere its just the satisfaction of knowing they can not only do it but get away with it. Others justify it and say " I was unhappy" no shit Sherlock because your in 2 relationships one is new and exciting and one is established and predictable... But guess what that new relationship you think is making you so happy is also going to turn into predictable, then where will you be back in 2 relationships and the never ending cycle of justifying it with "I was not happy!" The easiest thing is to walk away, give up and start a new relationship but the issues remains unsolved. Why are there people that are so willing to throw it all away for new and excitement when it's as simple as putting new and excitement into the relationship they already had? 
So again I ask the question who would willingly enter into a relationship with someone who is unavailable?